Of all the ways we have found to hurt ourselves, the worse has been through love.
We are always suffering because of someone who doesn’t love us, or someone who has left us, or someone who won’t leave us.
If we are alone, it is because no one wants us…
We forget that love is a blessing, not a debt.
All we can do is TO LOVE without wanting anything in return”- Paulo Coehlo
True!! Love is a feeling of sweetness one experiences from inner self. It is possible for one to be loving from inside irrespective of a object oriented love. But unfortunately the social conditioning made us loving possible only with the presence of a person or object by acts of possession. This is what happens from childhood we love our parents and siblings the most while discriminating others with some sort of bias. Loving or being loved by any external circumstances need to be looked cautiously. There have always been boundaries set by society for love and as such love is a scarce thing to be found. Most of people are dependent on few for this scarce thing. This gonna lead heart break (in any case of getting or losing the love since love is defined by possession in our generation).
The only solution is realising the fact that seat of happiness lies within and not outside. We can be loving if we choose to be. We can be happy if we choose to be.